Help convince my parents to let me get a horse!!?

I need help convincing my parents to get em a horse. I have already considered all costs. I would be able to work off board at the stable, and they cover the costs of feed, hay, water, shavings. I would be able to pay for the yearly vet visits and teeth flosting. I am certified in trimming of horse hooves, so that takes off $35 every other month. I have over $500 saved in case of an emergency, and I will always deposit into my savings when I am paid. The intial purchase price of the horse I want is $1200. And this price is a great price for this horse. He is amzingly trained and willing to please. I have bonded so much with him. I want some ideas on how to convince my parents to get him. I know they have enough money, because they have said so, but they won't tell me why I can't get a horse. My dad said to talk with my mom and go by what she says, and everything will work out. I don't get this! Please help!!

Help convince my parents to let me get a horse!!?
Have you described all the details like you did here? I suggest making an appointment with them to sit down and talk about it for a few minutes, and try to make it at a time when they're in a good mood. Ask if you could explain to them the reasons you think you should be allowed to get a horse. Think of it as making an argument in court, you're trying to give them enough proof to get your way. Calmly explain all of the details that you've said here, and finish with saying something like, "And that's why I would like to have a horse." Then, wait for their response. If they just say no, ask them very nicely why they say no. Make sure you don't get whiny, impatient, or mad. Remember that you're also trying to show them that you are mature enough for this responsibility.





Good luck!
Reply:(just for kicks) read to your parents the poem "Little Abigail and the Beautiful Pony!" by Shel Silverstein
Reply:hey girl, i know its tough to get your parents to buy u a horse it took me 11 years to get mine. i started asking when i was 3. but just hang in there and remind them how much u love horses. show how much u love taking care of him and ridding him. Then they'll know your not going to lose s interest and you'll take care of him
Reply:I agree with Amarigold.


Sit them down and tell them everything you said here and see what they think.


I think you are ready to have a horse, myself.
Reply:It sounds like you have everthing that you need to get a horse but jusst keep tring NEVER EVER let up!!!! Ok that is the way I got my Mom to get me in 4-H try that it worke for me.
Reply:Dotn tell them you can take care of one show them. Takea job at a local barn. TEll them that horses like you no matter what you look like or what your friends think of you. So when you have a bad day, just go to your HORSE!
Reply:Talk to your father again, since he is not giving a direct reply.
Reply:I understand your frustration. You've got everything covered as far as I can tell. Sit both of them down together and talk to them both at the same time. No distractions. Find out just why it is that they won't give you an answer. I don't know how old you are but perhaps they are afraid that you will lose interest and that then it will be up to them to care for the horse. Also, when you have the meeting with them, have down in black and white your expenses and how you will cover them. If they see something tangible, perhaps they will relent. Good luck to you sweetie.
Reply:I am going to give you advice as a parent. When my 15 year old step daughter wanted her own horse her dad and I agreed to get it for her as long as she contributed to the cost, we have our own land, barn etc so there was no boarding fees and we told her she could babysit or whatever to help pay feed bills. She was all excited and we got the horse. At first it was a good thing she kept the barn spotless, worked with the horse daily, fed it, groomed it everythng she even followed through with earning money to help with the cost THEN after about 6 months she got bored she didn't have time to do what she wanted to do the horse got worked less, we ended up dooing a lot more of the feeding etc. We learned that kids know what they want but often if it turns out to be more than they thought they get bored with it. This might possibly be what your parents are afraid of happening. Go to the stable where you would board the horse and go ahead and start working there, then sit down with your parents and explain to them just like you did on here about what you are willing to do, have them talk with the owners of the stable so they know that you will be working off the feed and board fees. While doing all of this make sure you are keeping up your grades at school and obligations at home as well, if they se you failing in these areas then they are less likely to go for it. Not all kids looses interest my other kids are 7,8 and 14 and they spend more time in the barn than in the house. A horse is a great way for a kid to learn responsibility, but you also have to see a parent can see it as a great way for a kid to get hurt. Print off your ? on here and all the responses and after dinner when more relaxed sit down with both of you parents and let them read it and then tell them you have set up an appointment for them to talk to the stable owner and see the horse. Maybe they need to see it for themselves and hear it from an adult before they give in.
Reply:Alright Honey, let's get something clear right off the bat; you have to go to school to become a farrier. And if you still have to convince mommy and daddy before you can get a horse, chances are you haven't been. That said I'm not sure what teeth flosting is, but because you seem so knowledgeable(sarcasm) I'll take your word on that one.


Now, you have savings- which is great, don't get me wrong. But if your horse collics or God forbid runs through a fence, you're going to blow through it fast. Also keep in mind that besides the essentials, if you expect to actually ride the horse you're going to need every thing from saddle pads, to sturip leathers. Those things aren't cheap.


Now, as far as convincing your parents...I have no doubt that you really want this horse. That much is obvious. But your parents(and I) are probably more worried that you don't understand what a commitment a horse it. It's not a "fair weather" pet. You can't just decide not to go up to the barn because it's cold or rainy. Horses need attention every single day. From feeding and grooming to hauling buckets of water.


Take your time. Become a little more knowledgeable. And make sure that you love the horse as much as you do the idea of him. Then talk to your parents.
Reply:I understand that you really want a horse. But horses are often more expensive than you plan for. You need %26amp; need to pay for





Saddle-upper $100's-$1000s


saddle pads (and plenty of them)


Blankets


bridle


pay vet bills


random horse problems


farrier (in case your horse actually needs shoes; especially if they go lame)


training equiptment for riding(lunge line %26amp; whip, boots, etc.)


cleaning supplies


board (you said you can pay for, but be ready to add this in)


Meds. (In Case of Emergency)


dentist


your riding things (boots etc.)


and there are always things to add on, believe me i keep needing to go to te store for mine


Accidents(meaning BIG vet bill BIG)





~If you can pay for this, and and problems that can occur or may happen then you are good, but remember that your horse is only a 1000 horse, and may not be as good~





Create a sheet that maps out EVERYTHING you horse needs, or may need, or may happen, and show how you can pay for it. Maybe your parents think you arent ready yet, horses are a big responsibility. Believe me my parents didnt start looking for a horse until i had ridden 5 years. And it took us another 3 from there. Make sure that this horse is perfect for you, dont let your want of a horse overshadow the actual horse. I'd say unless you have been riding AND working with horses for at least 3 years, you arent ready to own a horse.


Wish you the best